What Do You Value Most?
What are relationship values?
Core priorities that guide how you want to build your life with a partner: family, career, finances, lifestyle, spirituality, social life, and personal growth.
How does it work?
Answer 21 statements about your priorities on a scale from Strongly Disagree to Strongly Agree.
What will I learn?
Your value profile, which priorities matter most, and conversation starters for discussing values with your partner.
How long does it take?
About 5 minutes. Answer honestly based on what truly matters to you, not what you think should matter.
I'm willing to make personal sacrifices to advance my career.
How much do you agree with this statement?
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly Agree
Frequently Asked Questions
Relationship values are the core priorities that guide how you want to build your life with a partner. They include dimensions like family focus, career ambition, financial priorities, lifestyle preferences, spiritual beliefs, social connections, and personal growth goals.
Understanding your values helps you make decisions that align with what truly matters to you and find partners who share similar priorities.
Shared values are one of the strongest predictors of long-term relationship success. While personality differences can complement each other, fundamental value mismatches often lead to ongoing conflict.
For example, if one partner values career above all else while the other prioritizes family time, this creates recurring tension around major life decisions. Understanding each other's values early helps you navigate these conversations.
Yes! Values can shift as you move through different life stages. Career might be most important in your 20s, while family becomes the priority in your 30s or 40s. Major life events also reshape what matters most.
That's why regular check-ins about values are important. You might also enjoy our Couple Type Quiz to understand how you approach your relationship together.
Share your results with your partner and compare your top priorities. Where do you align? Where do you differ? Use the conversation starters in your results to discuss how these values show up in your daily lives.
For areas where you differ, focus on understanding rather than convincing. Plan intentional dates that honor both partners' values.