How Many Green Flags Do You Have?
What is this quiz?
Find out how many green flags (healthy relationship signs) you and your partner share.
How does it work?
Rate 15 statements about your relationship from "Always" to "Never".
What will I learn?
Your green flags score, strongest areas, and where there's room to grow.
How long does it take?
About 3-4 minutes. Answer honestly for the most accurate results!
My partner actively listens when I share something important.
How often is this true in your relationship?
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
Frequently Asked Questions
Green flags are positive signs that indicate a healthy, supportive relationship. They're the opposite of red flags and include things like consistent communication, mutual respect, emotional support, shared laughter, and feeling safe to be yourself.
Recognizing green flags helps you appreciate what's working well in your relationship and gives you confidence that you're building something healthy together.
There's no magic number, but healthy relationships typically show consistent green flags across multiple areas. This quiz measures 15 key relationship behaviors. Scoring well on most of them suggests a strong foundation.
Remember, every relationship has room for growth. Areas where you scored lower aren't failures; they're opportunities to strengthen your connection intentionally.
A lower score isn't a judgment on your relationship's worth. It's valuable information about where to focus your energy. Even the strongest relationships have areas that need attention and growth.
Use your results to start a conversation with your partner. You might also try our Relationship Stress Test for a deeper dive into specific areas of your relationship health.
Building green flags takes intentional effort from both partners. Start by celebrating the green flags you already have! Then, pick one or two growth areas and make small, consistent improvements together.
Regular date nights help strengthen connection. Browse our date ideas for inspiration, and consider taking our Love Language Quiz to learn how you each prefer to give and receive love.